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You’re not a Silicon Valley start-up; you’re a human. You don’t have to show anybody any numbers. All you have to show people is your true self.
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Creativity isn’t about seeking validation, wealth, or fame. It’s about materializing the depths of your being into tangible form. Others don’t need to appreciate, comprehend, or even be made aware of your art because it’s not for them; it’s for you.
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If you weren’t capable of your calling, your intuition wouldn’t bother you as it does. The persistent dream that surfaces in the shower, on walks in the park, in conversations, and through journal entries reveals itself to you because its manifestation is possible.
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Before discerning one’s calling, one must relearn how to trust oneself and steadfastly maintain faith in one’s intuition. This faith is what will allow intuition to triumph when the ego inevitably resists and puts up a fight to maintain control. And it doesn’t help that your intrinsic calling will be no easy feat. In fact, it’s likely to scare the sh*t out of you.
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You don’t need to prepare extensively before stepping into the world. You just have to show up as you really are. Titles, labels, degrees, or a lengthy list of accomplishments are unnecessary. All that’s required is belief in yourself and your boundless wellspring of ideas. When you present your true self to the world, you’ll astound people. Most individuals never dare to show up as themselves.
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Attempting to reason with the inner voice is a futile endeavor; doing so only grants it power over your actions and emotional state. Instead, when the voice starts to put up a fight, let it go. When it stirs up turmoil, breathe deeply and allow the thoughts to gradually subside. Don’t engage with inner nonsense or distractions. The voice has a limited attention span and will eventually abandon the excuses it presents.
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Years spent ignoring one’s calling and yielding to the ego’s influence by adopting a false identity will inevitably bring one to a place called Rock Bottom. Here, one must pause, rest, and reflect. You’ve buried your calling deep in your core and suppressed your intuition for so long that your body aches from neglect.
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Despite the elusiveness of the metaphysical, we engage with it daily. Phenomena such as dreams, intuition, the subconscious mind, flow states, mystical encounters, near-death experiences, altered states of consciousness, transcendental meditation, the creative muse, religious epiphanies, Big Ideas, and moments of profound joy, awe, and grace all offer glimpses into the metaphysical realm.
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Creativity isn’t a rare talent, an elusive realm, or a specialized vocation. It’s an innate aspect of human existence.
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Instead of vomiting my problems onto a page, I now propose solutions. And rather than relying solely on others’ ideas, I strive to come up with my own.
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We may fear exposing our vulnerabilities to the world, yet our struggles are remarkably universal. For every existential crisis we face, thousands, if not millions, of others are undergoing similar experiences.
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There are two things every human should know about the internal voice. The first is that the voice is not You. The second is that it never grows up.
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Embarking on your calling is no easy feat. You aren’t given the gift of life to perform a petty little task; you are here to accomplish something meaningful and complex. You’re here to manifest an individual calling from a metaphysical instinct into a physical incarnation.
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I only consciously discovered my calling about a year after I quit my job. The uncertainty surrounding one’s purpose while still in the system complicates the decision to take a leap of faith and quit.
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There’s no prerequisite to becoming an artist or living a more creative life. Remarkable creations are within our grasp because we, ourselves, are singular works of art. We can tap into the Soul Of All That Is And All That Will Ever Be because we are made of it. In the words of Carl Sagan, “We are composed of star stuff” – we are boundless, spirited, innovative beings inhabiting a cosmos teeming with creativity.
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In contrast to the ego, which sustains an ongoing mental dialogue to assert its desires, the intuitive mind conveys wisdom through bodily sensations resembling emotions, often called a gut instinct. Intuition serves a broader purpose than merely alerting us to potential dangers or close calls. Its primary function is to steer us toward our authentic selves (i.e., our calling).
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The only way to discern our purpose in life is by breaking free from the systems that entangle us, whether in the form of a corporate structure, a toxic relationship, or a corrupt mindset.
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Everything we desire to materialize (i.e., become material) originates as a thought. While thoughts lack a physical presence, we still acknowledge their existence. One could say they exist as thought-forms on the mental plane, accessible only to our minds rather than our physical senses.
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Metacognition can be paraphrased as “thinking beyond thinking.” It involves understanding how the mind operates so that one can maintain control over it rather than defaulting to conditioned behaviors.
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Perhaps life is a game, and perhaps its creator is a highly intelligent God-like figure. And maybe, just maybe, our existence beyond the Game of Life depends on the progress and impact we make while we’re still in it.
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Etymologically, the word “decide” literally means “to cut off.” In other words, to decide, one must eliminate all other options, however tempting they may be. We can only accomplish so much during our limited time on Earth. To achieve something, we must be willing to cut off all other things.
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You don’t want others to reject the real you. You’re reluctant to be perceived as an individual who left behind “everything” to pursue their calling, only to revert to your old ways once more. You’re hesitant to commit to becoming the optimal version of yourself, fearing the prospect of watching all your savings disappear before your eyes.
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How you choose to spend your time will profoundly impact the quality of your life. Prioritize the things that breathe meaning and purpose into your days while letting go of those that drain the very essence from your soul.
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True love goes beyond preserving a particular moment; it involves striving for common goals and backing collective efforts to achieve them jointly.
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The truth is that each of us harbors extraordinary ideas and intuitively knows how to resolve our most significant challenges. What we lack is faith in ourselves. Good writing requires courage and vulnerability. Writers must be willing to trust in their deeply held beliefs and truths. They must dispel the illusion that they are alone in experiencing inner struggles and emotions. And instead of regurgitating others’ ideas, they must share their own convictions.
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A shared vision is the cornerstone of a thriving partnership, surpassing the significance of money, possessions, and even common interests.
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Creating the best version of oneself is not an individual journey; it is a process that unfolds within the collective tapestry of humanity.
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Enjoy this opportunity to exist as you are. Do what brings you joy. Try new things. Be kind to other humans. Smile often. And remember, you are already more than enough.
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A key question to ask when assessing a potential life partner is: Do the qualities of this person align with what I desire to have more of in my life? To address this, self-awareness is crucial; you must understand what you bring to the table and what you lack.
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Make sure everything you do is perfect so there’s no opportunity for rejection – this is the kind of irrational logic that makes complete and total sense to the fragile human psyche.
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Effort comes from within; it’s independent of external circumstances. If there’s a will to do something, there’s always a way. We don’t lack any “thing” in particular. There’s no extenuating circumstance holding us back from realizing our human potential. What we lack is the understanding of our own willpower and the desire to do remarkable things with our one and only life.
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Spirit is a reservoir of pure consciousness and pure energy, and when we connect with it, we tap into a boundless source of wisdom and love.
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Life’s unpredictability may sometimes feel like an opponent, but it is, in fact, a potent ally. Change does not happen to us. Instead, change happens for us. It is the vehicle through which we transcend our limits, discover new potential, and embrace a more prosperous, fulfilling existence.
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Your intuition is your inner lighthouse, forever illuminating the path to your true destination. It remains standing and shining, even when you veer off course, deviating from your inner wisdom to heed the clamor of fear and ego.
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When you engage in self-talk, you’re essentially conversing with this inner voice. You can’t predict what it will say, but you do have a choice in how you react to it.
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Work, whether in the form of strenuous toil or dedicated practice, serves as a crucible for character.
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Using “love” as an escape or a crutch is tempting. The honeymoon phase of a relationship poses an ideal opportunity to disregard one’s future and remain fixated on the present – a paradox given the cliché advice about “being present” and “living in the moment.” However, being stuck differs from being present.
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As creatures of habit, we often find comfort in the illusion of control, clinging to the familiar, even when we know that most aspects of life exist beyond our power.
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Through serving others, we illuminate the soul of the world, revealing the unity that binds us all. Recognizing our core as spiritual beings, we experience a reciprocal outpouring of light and goodwill when we act selflessly. In service, we discover the profound truth that by enriching the lives of others, we, too, are enriched.
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The conditions of our inner world profoundly impact our external reality. Just as we tend to our physical surroundings, we must ensure that our inner landscape is conducive to well-being.
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We all have a choice: daringly pursue our dreams or focus on amassing wealth. There’s no universally correct answer, and no judgment is passed.
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To assess whether you’re using productive distractions to avoid your passion, try scheduling a dedicated one-hour block each day for working on the thing that lights you up. Then, observe what you actually do during that time.
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Valuable lessons are frequently accompanied by a cost. Each time I extract wisdom from a costly experience, I try to view that cost as a tuition payment.
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We transcend the limitations of our human existence, because this existence is but an experience.
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Life’s journey is a delicate dance between the external and internal worlds. To truly thrive, we must endeavor to remain conscious of both. Through presence, we not only improve our own lives, but we radiate our light outward, enriching the world around us.
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Believing in your capabilities is the catalyst for transformation. You will summon the strength to overcome any obstacle as long as you think you can.
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We carry generational pain and bear suffering so that our loved ones no longer have to.
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We deeply understand that this Earth and this human body are not our true home. They represent a temporary existence in a temporary place. Our journey begins with birth, and we return home through death – every one of us.
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The only person we must reconcile with regarding our decisions is our older self – sitting in a recliner chair, engrossed in Jeopardy! reruns, and contemplating the possibilities that “could’ve been.”
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Your authentic self is within you, not in the world around you.
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Friendship holds greater value than wealth.
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Others’ actions often stem from their own suffering.
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Mortality is the disease; spirituality is the remedy.
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We fear most what we are destined to become.
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Patience is a virtue because it requires faith.
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Success lies not just in persistence, but in consistently transforming ourselves into the right tool for the job.
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Heartbreak from failure is temporary and eventually transforms into hope, while heartbreak from regret is sustained.
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Love can be lost just as quickly as it can be found.
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Optimal ideas come forth when you decelerate and concentrate.
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When you intentionally put yourself in an uncomfortable situation, you grow.
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Absolutely nothing about life on earth is normal, so why in the world would you try so hard to be?
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Intuition is not a mind-made thought, but a gut-given instinct.
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Small, consistent efforts compounded over time produce results. Massive, inconsistent efforts result in burnout.
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Use social media, but don’t let it use you.
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Opting for virtue over victimization contributes to a happier, more fulfilling, and just world.
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Our greatest opportunities frequently manifest themselves amid adversity and difficulty.
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You don’t just need tiny, good habits. You need big, transformative ones.
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Be foolish enough to one day be called genius.
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To learn about yourself, seriously reflect on the things you find irritating in others.
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Today (and every day), we possess the option to either desensitize ourselves or enrich our spiritual well-being.
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Have your actions exceed the assumptions others make about you.
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Where your attention goes, your energy flows.
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